Meet The Unlit Leader: Guiding Leaders Without Titles to Confidence and Influence
With 26 years of leadership experience and a passion for authenticity, I help cultural minority leaders navigate complex environments, overcome imposter syndrome, and thrive without formal authority.
The Unlit Leader
Brian D. Matthews
I’m Brian, also known as The Unlit Leader. For over 26 years, I've been a military warrant officer, navigating high-stakes environments where influence often mattered more than titles. As a cultural minority leader, I faced the unique challenge of balancing authenticity with professional expectations while grappling with imposter syndrome.
These experiences shaped my passion for helping other leaders who feel stuck in roles without formal authority. Through the LIGHT Leadership Coaching Program and my book, Mastering the Inner Game, I provide practical tools and personalized coaching to help you overcome self-doubt, align your values with success, and thrive as a leader.
At Unlit Leadership, my mission is to help you unlock your authentic leadership potential. Together, we’ll cultivate authenticity, sharpen emotional intelligence, master effective communication, and align your personal values with actionable, achievable goals—empowering you to lead with confidence and purpose.
Why Work With Me?
Military Leadership Expertise: Over 26 years of real-world experience leading diverse teams in high-pressure environments where influence mattered more than titles.
Certified Coach and Trainer: Certified Executive Coach and Everything DiSC Facilitator with a focus on developing confident, authentic leaders.
Empathetic Approach: Having personally experienced and overcome imposter syndrome, I understand the challenges you face firsthand.
Proven Results: I’ve guided numerous leaders to build confidence, influence effectively, and step into their full potential—regardless of formal authority.
Personalized Coaching: Personalized strategies designed to align with your unique leadership style, values, and goals.
